26

So what happened for this year's birthday was
it was spent entirely with the external family haha

first things first,
saturday was spent with w pama on getting the sushi birthday deal haha
but we exceeded my 26 count so the bill went up to $40 oh wells

then on 19th itself
the morning was spent sending cousin off for her customary marriage and tea ceremony

we subsequently went over to maternal grandma side for the usual vesak event
this time, however, without attending the bazaar cause grandma doesnt wanna go (possibly due to wheelchair?)

then we went back to change to attend cousin's solemnization and wedding dinner for friends at night at a modern restaurant where we helped as reception
good food and new ambience - quite a good experience :) 

but all the people and social events made me so tired after that i just wanna go home and rest
but mama - prob scarred from my sec2 blackface cause no cake experience hahah - was insistent on getting me a cake but attempts failed
probably cause ive been feeding on cakes these day haha - coffeebean just few days before - when i do work
going cakeless this year wasnt that bad

in fact,
even though im not a big family kinda person
it actually feels alright spending the day doing a small part for the family
(great wedding lunch the following day too btw - good food and decor)

呵呵，写着写着
有点想念阿嬷了
想起小时候我和他们两姐弟在阿嬷家的片刻画面
阿嬷看到吵闹的小孙女居然成家
一定很惊喜和欣慰吧

阿嬷，爱你～

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不知道為什麼

我引以為傲的「善良」

卻成了最容易觸動我淚腺的一個詞彙

因為守護得不容易

因為它雖與生俱來卻又那麼難能可貴