我一直很努力地在學習，很努力地讓自己配得起『母儀天下』四個字。
可是，我努力再努力後才發現，這世上不是所有的事情，只要努力後就可以得到的。
－許平君 ≪雲中歌 卷六：悲喚來世夢≫ 桐華 著
我們無法改變生命的長度，但可以改變生命的廣度和深度，而愛情恰恰是一種最好的方式。
－劉弗陵 ≪雲中歌 卷五：恨酬江山月≫ 桐華 著
在對的時間，遇見對得人，是一生幸福：
在對的時間，遇見錯得人，是一場心傷：
在錯的時間，遇見對得人，是一世無奈：
在錯的時間，遇見錯得人，是一段折磨。
－≪雲中歌≫ 桐華 著
2025
2025 Without a doubt, the highlight of this year is entering a relationship with a boy named Guazi We spent so many weekends exploring different parts of singapore, countless nights chatting via teams and under the moonlight, and made so many precious hilarious memories together Even though he left for London & Italy for three months, it was also ample time for us to truly chat and understand each other before we commit to an official relationship. To both our surprise, we have so many common topics and memories of the past and this makes the conversation flow so well - our social media ig/threads feed are also very identical Yet, we hold very different opinions and thought processes, and this causes gaps in between us which i have yet to fully address That being said, I had many uncertainties, and I questioned time and again if I was just a convenient option for him Thankfully, I got my answer on 28th Dec, when this boy found me at Awfully Chocolate during m...
